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This Website is in honour of the Howard family. Updated news & information will be included on here, as is appropriate and necessary. Please share your thoughts & prayers with the family to help support them during this difficult time.
As of Thursday, August 16, 2007
Caleb, 7: MIRACLES HAPPEN!!! Thank you for your continued prayers!!! They are working!!! Caleb has improved substantialy. He remembers things before the accident and events after. All body parts are moving. He began to speak words and small phrases. His arm cast has been removed and his leg cast is expected to come off next tuesday. Although he is still hospitalized, he has been able to spend a couple of nights at home. What a joy that has been.
As of Wednesday, July 18, 2007
Caleb, 7: Moved out of the ICU and is in stable condition. Due to his head injury there is some brain damage. His eyes are open and understands and responds to simple commands. There are great hopes for some level of recovery. How far he can recover is still unknown.
As of Tuesday, July 10 @ 3 p.m.
Rachel, 13: Discharged from Primary Children's on Tuesday, July 3, and went to her home in Huntsville. She is very happy to be back at home! She was removed from the Pediatric ICU morning of June 30. On July 1 she took her first walk down the halls of Primary Children's Hospital, and enjoyed a wheelchair ride back to her room from her dad.
Caleb, 7: Remains in intensive care at Primary Children's, and in critical condition. On Friday, July 6, he had a successful leg reconstruction surgery, and today (July 10th) began being slowly taken off of the sedatives.
Esther, 8: Pronounced dead on Friday, June 29, and taken off life support the morning of Saturday, June 30.
Janine (Mother), 39: Pronounced dead at the scene
Mathew, 11: Pronounced dead at the scene
John DeVores, 19: Was not traveling with the family
Ben (Father), 40: Was not traveling with the family
“We would like to thank the community for the outpouring of love and support shown to our family at this time. Thank your for your prayers, kind words, and messages.
“In tragedy there is opportunity for greatness. Our children have been our greatest blessing and now they have the opportunity to be a blessing to others. Esther Hope Howard has now become the hope for other families as our family is participating in organ donation. We are deeply grateful for the blood donations that were used for each of the children who received care. It is our Hope to encourage others to give the gift of life by giving blood and supporting organ donation.
“The family is self-employed and is not covered by medical insurance. Those who would like to provide a gift of financial support may contact Washington Mutual, Howard Family Relief Fund."
Date: | Saturday, July 7th, 2007 |
Location: |
Middleton Ward Building 277 S. 7400 E. Huntsville, UT 84317 Google Map |
Schedule: | 10:00 - 12:00 Viewing 1:00 Funeral Service |
70 comments:
My heart goes out to you and your family. God bless you.
Our family is praying for yours in this tragic time. God bless you and give you strength.
I am so sorry for the losses in your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Although I don't know your family, my heart is broken. I can only imagine what you are going through. Bless you all.
Dear Ben Howard Family, David & Karen Adams,
We were very saddened to hear of your loss today. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.
Ryan Leonard
Michael Eaves
This tragedy has tugged at my heart... please know that your family is in my prayers for your strength and comfort.
God Bless You.
Your losses are heartwrenching.
Oh! How my heart is breaking for your sweet family. There is nothing that I can say that will make it 'all better', but I wish so much that I could! I pray that God will be with you at this time, and will take you by the hand if you need it.
-Molly Kay
I live across the state, but when I heard this story I couldn't help but feel for the family and friends. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I am truly sorry!
Dear Ben and Family,
Know that the Hurst First Ward in Texas is keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. We love you and are here when you need us.
Love,
Bishop Tommy Hamilton
We love your family more than words can express.We treasure every moment that you had permitted us to be spend with you. Our hearts are broken beyond comprehension.
Joe and Faith
I can't imagine losing my children let alone your significant other. I am very sorry for your loss.
My daughter and I were watching the new and it struck her kind of hard. She was very sad for your family. We will have you in our prayers.
May the God of all peace help your family through this terrible, terrible time. Know that the prayers of the community are with you.
I was just in shock to hear about this tragic story! I heart goes out to you and your family! God bless you and your family.
Dear Ben, we have you and your family in our thoughts and prayers from your ward in Texas. We pray the Lord's comforting blessings to be with you at this time.
Love,
Shane and Lisa
God bless your family at this most difficult time. The God of Heaven will protect you and comfort you during this tragic time. Your family is in the hearts and prayers of so very many people. God be with you.
As much as I hate to say it, I hope that people will look to this incident as an example. In other words, I don't care that the other driver (the pick-up driver) has a broken back, etc...if he is found "at fault" he should be charged with a crime and prosecuted for, at a minimum, manslaughter.
People are failing to realize their actions have consequences. In this case, there is mention of "drowsy driving". This is as bad as driving under the influence (of alcohol or drugs - legal or not).
There is also the growing problem of "distracted driving", which is taking lives as well.
I feel for the family. I have a wife of 13+ years and 4 children, and loosing any of them would devastate me.
I know there needs to be forgiveness, but there also needs to be justice.
I am so sorry for this terrible tradgey your family is going through right now. My sons called me yesterday to tell me of the accident. They were about 300 yards away and heard the impact of the crash. They said it was amazing how quickly people stopped to try and help. God bless your family at this time and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Sawyers
Dear Ben Howard and Family,
Our entire family is praying for you.
Brandon Tibbitts,
Son of Richard and Ethel Tibbitts
Ben and family,
We sorrow with you---you are in our thoughts and prayers and hearts...words cannot express our sadness. Your friends in Texas are praying for you....
Dave and Meredith Jeppson & family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you right now. My little 5 year old said his prayers last night that the family in the bad crash wouldn't be scared.
I echo his sentiments, and hope that knowing that the love and prayers of friends and strangers alike are there in behalf of your family will be a strength to you all at this difficult time.
We love you!
We are sorry for you loss and our prayers are with you. Know the Lord loves you.
Ben,
I am so sorry. Our family is in shock. Hannah is very troubled for her friend. When the time is right, I want to come and sit with you.
If there is any good in this, I am reminded to hold my family close.
Thanks to Dave for setting up this blog so that your Texas brothers and sisters can stay updated without distracting you from what must get done.
I love you, Brother.
~Rob
This is so terrible as someone who lost a sister also in an accident please know that I feel some of your pain while you have to suffer greater loss then I the pain is still strong.
My heart and prayers go out to all your family as they deal with this tragidy.
We live just a short distance from the accident and watched and listened yesterday as the police, ambulances, fire truck, and the airmed helicopter arrived on the scene. We knew something terrible had happened. We are so sorry for the loss of your precious wife and children. You are in our prayers. We also pray for the young man who caused this tragedy. Certainly no one can wish to create this type of tragedy and we know he is affected too. May the Lord strengthen and bless all those who are injured and in need of healing.
Your family is in our prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. May God bless you and your family.
Dear Ben, we love you and are praying hard you find some peace in all this! We (the AR Doc in NE and I)want you to know we will be there in a flash whenever you have need of us and you are ALWAYS welcome in our home!! Janine was one of the GREATEST women I've EVER known! But I know you know that. THANK GOD for the plan of salvation!!! Where would we be without it?
All our love to you ,kiddo! Keep us posted.
Your Eternal friends,
William, Annie, Riley, Everett and Emma Winn.
p.s. Riley cried today when I told him about Ester. I think he had had some long term plans worked out there....maybe later!
We are so sorry to hear of your tragic losses. We hope you can find comfort. You are in our prayers.
We are thinking of you at this time and while the pain is great and difficult to bear, please know we are sending love your way.
Ben,
Our family holds yours very dear in our hearts. When we told Richard and David, they both wanted to do something. Richard was making plans to call or come to the hospital since he's at the Y. David immediately asked for your cell number to call since he's here in Texas. Ric and I were up several hours last night praying, and talking about our many years of friendship with you and Janine.
We love you and wish you and your family were here so we could be by your side through this. We are so grateful that you have family in Utah to sustain you at this time. We are also grateful for the comfort you must feel knowing you, Janine and the kids are sealed for time and all eternity.
All our love,
Ric and Nancy
My prayers are with your family. I am so sorry.
Ben, I just don't know what to say. The shock has yet to wear off. I can still hear Janine and the kids yelling "MR. WILSON" whenever I came over. Which now I realize was not often enough. We love you and are praying for you.
Ben, Deborah, Thomas & Meaghan
Ben and Family,
Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this time. We are so very sorry for the loss of your sweetheart and children. Our hearts are broken as well. We know that our Father in Heaven holds you in His hands and will give you the strength and wisdom that you need during this most difficult time.
Joe and Janet Smith and family
I am so sadden by these horable events. I have a hard time dealing with them and feel verry sorry for the family. My heart goes out to you.
-The Bond Family
Dear Howard and Adams Families, I am sososo sorry to hear of this tragic accident. I pray for you and those survivors that God will bring you peace and comfort and the faith and strength to get through each day. We love you!
Dearest Ben and family-
We cannot understand what you are feeling nor the loss you have endured. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. We can only pray that you may feel a measure of peace through the promises of eternity and the gifts given by the Savior that will allow your family to always be together. We love you.
Love,
Jimmy & Andrea Ballard
Dear Ben and Family,
Our daughter, Victoria, is a close friend to Rachael and has been to your home several times. We met your wife, Janine, and were very impressed with her sweet and humble spirit. We know that Janine loved her family very much. We are at a loss of words as what to express in such a tragedy. We will be praying for you and your children. Victoria is rallying her friends even today to provide an uplift and support to Rachael. We pray that you will find peace through our Heavenly Father and His great plan for you and your family.
Love,
The Bennetts
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this hard time. God bless you to find peace and help you through this difficult time.
Ben, our whole family is praying for you, Rachel & Caleb, and of course your folks and siblings. God Bless you all. If there is anything we can do. Please let us know. We want to be there with/for you all... Let us know when.
LaMar & Joy Millett Family
My heart and prayers are with your family during this trying time. May God comfort you and bless you.
-Liz White
Daughter of Chris & Sally Seil from the Hurst 1st Ward
Ben & family,
Your Uncle Jerry called my Mom (Aunt Kathy and Uncle R.L.) and told them of your heartbreaking news. We want all of you to know that we love you and our thoughts and prayers are with your whole family. The loss of a child is devasting we miss our Raquel everyday. I can't imagine losing two children and my sweetheart. We will continue to pray for you daily. I can imagine there was a wonderful reunion in Heaven. There is great comfort in our knowledge of the plan of salvation and our Saviors love for us. May He comfort you in the days, weeks, and years ahead.
Love,
Uncle R.L. Aunt Kathy & family
To the Ben Howard Family,
My husband and I would like to come to the funeral. We were one of the first responders to the accident. I cann't tell you how horrible it felt to not be able to reach them in the car. Then when my husband got the one door open we were able to get the one boy out and stablize him. All I could think about was your family.
Cathleen
My sister not of my blood. “Every where I look I see you there”. Those were my words to you in our phone conversation as you settled into your new home. I’m still feeling that, but now more than ever. It’s bitter sweet as I go to work and remember you there; every week teaching and training your children as they took a break from schooling at home and did their lessons at the library. I carry visions of Ester at full speed running to the children’s department from the restroom to beat no ones record but her own, wisping her hair out of her face as she always did, more from habit than necessity. Matthew, what a fine young man he turned out to be. You put a lot of work into that boy, and it shows. You knew your children well Janine. All the way from knowing their individual learning styles, to how to get them to embrace honor for themselves as a family. I dare say I will never know another woman in this lifetime who was more dedicated to following her destiny of motherhood while enriching herself and those around her. Elaine L. Jack, General RS President has said, “No greater heroine lives in today’s world than the woman who is quietly doing her part” That sums you up my friend.
Love you, Michele
Ben & family, Thank you for setting up this site where we all can share in your heartache and grief. Sending our love, thoughts, and prayers,
The Haynes Family
Ben, Rachel and Caleb: Our hearts are so heavy with the loss of your wonderful family. Please know that we grieve with you and we love you all so much. While we can't understand this tragedy we will always have such beautiful memories of Janine, Matthew and Esther. We are so blessed to have had them in our lives even if for only too short of time. Your in our hearts, our thoughts and our prayers.
Each morning lean thine arms awhile
Upon the windowsill of heaven
And gaze upon thy Lord--
Then with a vision in thine heart
Turn strong to meet thy day!
Written by Annonymous
Although I do not know your family
personally, Just wanted to share this little poem that has helped me through much trial in life! I believe everything will be made up to you through the eternities.
--Love, Your Sister in the Gospel.
God bless you all. We will pray for you.
ben
What a great family you have our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time out daughter prayed that Rachel will get better love the mulder family
Ben and family,
I do not know you but heard of this through my dad who is friends with your family (Byron). I am so sorry for your loss. I am keeping your family in my prayers that God will bless and comfort you during this difficult time.
Trisha
Ben, my dear friend,
My heart is breaking to know that in this life I will never again see Janine's radiant smile, and Matthew's practical approach to every problem, and Esther going from pouting to giggling in the wink of an eye.
I love you, and our prayers are with you.
Todd Hepworth and Family
Fort Worth, TX
Dear Ben and family,
We feel and share your grief at this tragic time of loss. Words cannot express our sadness. We pray that you will draw comfort from the promises of eternity that allows your family to be together forever. Please know that we would gladly do anything we can for you here in Texas.
With heartfelt love and care,
The Bartosek Family
Dear Ben and Family,
We fondly remember Janine's beautiful hats, teaching your sweet children over the years, watching the boys swim at cub scouts, babysitting your kids, mowing the yards, and when you and Janine moved here as newlyweds. Our hearts and prayers go out to you!
Love,
Chris and Sally Seil and family
Dear Howard family, my wife and I wish to extend our sorrow at you tragic loss. We pray that ministering angels will attend your family and carry you through at this very sad time. May God bless you.
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Janine from Middle School, and she was a wonderful person.
May God bless you through this terrible ordeal, and may the organs donated save lives.
Dear Howard Family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Turn to Him, and God will give you strength and peace during this time. We love you!
-The Long Family
Although we do not know your family, we feel deeply of your loss and pray you will be sustained during this time and in the years to come.
Ben and family,
While it’s hard to even imagine the heartache that you are going through, please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. We pray that you may be sustained through this difficult time.
Love,
Jared and Jodi Wright
My family dont know your family but please know that we think about you and your and your family ever day. my family dont live far from where the accident happend. Your family is in our thoughts.
the ropelato family.
Ben:
My prayers along with my families are with you. NO words can express the out pouring of love for you and your family at this time. Lean on GOD and he will see you though this time of need.
Remember your medicine and your tools that you learned.
Lara Wedel
Dear Ben and family,
My heart is so full of love and compassion for you at this time of loss. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that you might have peace, strength $ comfort. Also that forgiveness may fill your heart. Know that your Savior has already suffered this pain for you. He knows what you are going through and if asked, He will help you to carry this burden. Lean on Him.
When you come home to visit your Mom and Dad, Matthew was in my primary class. What a marvelous young man he was. I know that he is doing great things in our Father's kingdom.
Love, Sis. Julia Wareing
Rose 1st Ward
Ben,
We just wanted to let you know that we loved your family. We have know yall for the last 12 years. You are in our prayers. We love yall.
Angel Nibarger
Ben, I am so very sorry for your loss. I am praying for you daily. My heart aches for you and your wifes family. You and your family have touched so many lives and were lights to many. May that love now shine for you and help guide you during this tragic time. Hugs and beans of love for you.
Love, Angie Davis (choices feb 2005)
We extend our deepest sympathy to your family. Fond memories console the heart. The girls send Rachel their love and hope for a speedy recovery. We'll keep each of you in our prayers.
Ron & Anita Romrell
Jonathan, Evan, Logan & Madisan
Ben,
We just heard about the accident today. Our hearts are broken. If there is anything we can do for you and your family here please let us know. You all have always been such good neighbors and friends to us. We are all so sorry for your loss. We will be praying for you.
The Hornisher Family
Bill, Julee, Sarah, Melissa and Billy
Dearest Ben,
Words cannot express how much sorrow I feel for this tragedy. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and Prayers. The gift I see in you is a kind, gentle, forgiving man of great worth to self and all mankind. You share a big piece in my heart as part of the Fab 44 group, we will always be ever so grateful for you touching and coming into our lives and are here for you always.
Much Love & Warm Hugs,
Evelyn
Dear Ben and Family --
You don't know us, but we feel we know you thru our very dear friends, Harold & Yolinda Huber. We were shocked and saddened when Harold emailed us the terrible news of your tragedy. We wanted to join the many in expressing our very heartfelt sympathy at your great loss.
We know from experience that you are working on auto-pilot right now, and how very difficult it is to even put a thought together. We have lost 3 of our 4 children (but not at the same time). We can tell you that this next year is going to be a very difficult year, but with the help of your family, friends, and the Gospel, you can and will get through it.
We'd like to share a poem that meant so much to us when we lost our children, and hope it brings you some comfort also.
"Little Angels"
When God calls children to dwell with him above,
We mortals sometime question the wisdom of his love.
For no heartache compares with the death of one small child
Who has done so much to make our world seem wonderful and mild.
Perhaps God tires of calling the aged to his fold,
So he picks a rosebud, before it can grow old.
God knows how much we need them,
And so he takes but a few,
To make the Land of Heaven more beautiful to view.
Believing this is difficult,
Still somehow we must try.
The saddest word mankind knows
Will always be "good-bye."
So when a child departs, we who are left behind must realize
God loves little children --
Angels are hard to find.
--Annoymous
You are very blessed in having so many friends and family so willing to offer you support. Don't hesitate to call on them -- day or night -- they won't mind.
May we also recommend, if needed, (it helped us tremendously) a group called "Compassionate Friends." It is a group for parents who have lost children. I'm certain there is a group also, for family tragedies such as yours.
Even though you do not know us, we have walked a little in your shoes. Please feel free to call - day or night - if you need someone to talk to.
With empathy and sympathy, and much love,
Phil & Myrna St.George
Trenton, TX
Ben and family,
My sincere sympathy. You and your family are in my prayers. Comforting to know that your family
is forever.
Debbie
NRH
These are agonizing words to read, much less absorb. I wish I could say something comforting but my heart is in too much darkness to see any light right now to look toward.
Dearest Ben,
I have been waiting to talk to you thinking that God would give me the perfect words...well there are no perfect words. I am sitting at the computer crying for you and your family, of course not knowing what to say except that you are being thought of, prayed for, and lifted in His spirit. I have a special memory of you and your wife and it was at the Choices dance. Ya'll were so happy and you both just fit together...you danced so well together. I thought at the time how lucky you must both feel to have found each other. I hope this is not too much but I wanted you to know what I saw at that time.
Again, I am praying for you, praying for your family and lifting those prayers to the One who can comfort you. You have been such a blessing to so many at choices, and I was one of them.
In His Perfect Love,
Connie (Choices June 2006)
We were wondering how Caleb was doing?
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